I’m Chocolate, Your Vanilla by Marguerite A. Wright.
About 1.5 years ago two different women told me about this book. I would say this is a must read for anyone because it deals with race. If you’ve got kids, no matter what their color is, you should read it. Our hope is to one day be a transracial family but even if we weren’t the author explains how kids view race and how their view is different from an adults view. She also refers a lot to 3 year olds which is fun to me because I know one really well. Seriously, go to the library now, you won’t be sorry.